Holding Hands

What has happened in our society today? Why don’t we see people holding hands anymore? For the last couple of months, I have observed people in different places and settings, while watching to see who held hands and who did not hold hands. Through my observation and personal experience, I would like to share with you the incredible connection and powerful healing that holding hands can bring.

Starting from when I was young, holding hands was common among children and adults. As I think back, I remember holding my Dad’s hand and feeling safe and secure. On occasion, I would even run up to a teacher and grab their hand to let them know I cared about them in my own special little way. As a teenager, holding hands with a young lady was a message to the other boys that said, “She is mine and I care about her.” and vice versa. I even watched adults holding hands as they walked down the street showing their love for one another.
However, something has changed in our society today. Despite the fact that I am not an expert and there is no written data available; I have arrived at the following conclusions:

Regarding hand holders: I have seen more teenagers holding hands than adults. Of the adults that were holding hands, most of them were older in their years. Furthermore, there was about a 50/50 split in parents who held their little kids hands.

Regarding non-hand holders: the biggest group was between the ages of 25-45 years old. They walked without talking to each other and sometimes focused more on the kids than each other. They seemed agitated and driven to get to their next destination. They showed little to no joy in each other and sometimes, one or both people were on their cell phones.

Holding hands with someone creates an incredible connection of safety, communication and love for one another. Yet, why has holding hands with our loved ones become secondary to holding our phones or holding a grudge against each other? I truly believe this trend stems from a very real enemy that keeps us extremely busy, distracted and self-centered. When we hold hands, we are showing the world that we are united as one and focused on the other person and not ourselves. Having that physical connection is another way of saying, “You are important to me and whatever is going on, we are going to get through it together.”

Consider for a moment, how your loved ones would feel if you held their hand as much as you hold your cell phone? How would that make you feel if someone did that for you? And so, I encourage you to commit to holding the hands of your loved ones and see what you get back in return. Let the enemy know that despite his efforts, we are united with the ones we love.